Is Black Really Our Best Friend?

The Truth About Black in Our Wardrobes

Take a peek inside your closet for a moment. What do you see? If you’re like most women, it’s probably rows of dark pieces with black dominating the scene. Let’s be real: too many wardrobes look like carbon copies. For so many women, black becomes the default.
You’ve been told black is chic, slimming, and timeless. You buy it because it feels easy, practical, “flattering.” You reach for it when you’re unsure what else to wear.

Before you know it, half the wardrobe is made up of black dresses, black pants, black tops, black bags, and black shoes. Sure, black feels easy, but if we’re being honest, easy doesn’t always mean flattering or fun.

Here’s the thing: black has its place, but is it really making you look your best - radiant, confident, and full of life? In fact, sometimes it works against you more than it helps. Isn’t it time to rethink the old idea that black should be the backbone of every wardrobe?

Let’s take a closer look at what black actually does for you.

  • Black and Emotion
Black isn’t as bold as red, and not as neutral as gray. Psychologists say it can send signals of being distant, unapproachable, or overly serious. Sometimes it says power and authority. Other times, it whispers about hiding, uncertainty, or even sadness and depression. Is that really the message you want your wardrobe to send?

  • Black and Your Face
Here’s the tough truth: black sitting right under your face can be harsh.

Next to lighter complexions and certain hair colors, it can make your skin look dull, emphasize fine lines, and draw attention to tired eyes. Instead of glowing, the face often fades into the background, letting black do all the talking.

  • Black and Your Figure
You’ve probably heard the saying: “Black makes you look slimmer.” But that’s not always true.

If you wear a size 12 or up, black often has the opposite effect. It creates one big, heavy block of color, making your shape look larger and highlighting areas you might prefer to soften.

  • Black in Fashion
Designers love black for a reason: it makes sharp silhouettes and dramatic shapes pop on the runway. But your life isn’t a runway show.

You don’t need clothes that make you look like a sketch - you deserve pieces that make you look vibrant, approachable, youthful, and full of energy.

  • Black in Everyday Wear & the Little Black Dress
Yes, black can hide a small stain, but it also clings to every strand of lint and hair. And after a few washes, that deep intensity fades, leaving clothes looking worn and tired. Not exactly the polished look most of us are going for.

Which brings us to the most famous black piece of all: the Little Black Dress. For decades, it’s been called a wardrobe “must.” But maybe it’s time to challenge that myth.
For example:
Winters: Hot pink, magenta, ruby red, burgundy
Summers: Dusty rose, crimson, strawberry, raspberry
Springs: Coral pink, hot coral, watermelon, salmon
Autumns: Brick red, cardinal, cinnabar, tomato

Quick tip: If red isn’t in our Power Colors™ or DNA Colors™ palettes – or if wearing it feels bold – adding a couple of striking red accessories, like shoes or a handbag, can still make a stylish statement.

The Takeaway

Not all reds are created equal. The right shade can warm us, empower us, and make us shine – while the wrong one can wash us out or feel heavy and overpowering. When we find our reds, the ones that harmonize with our natural coloring, we don’t just wear the color… we wear confidence.

The good news: We don’t have to figure it out alone.
Many of us weren’t taught how to pick colors that highlight our natural beauty, but it’s never too late to learn. That’s where understanding your Personal Color Code™ comes in.

Through our webinars and training programs, women are discovering how to move past random color choices or predictable black-and-white closets and embrace a personal style that celebrates individuality.

And since style is personal, I’d love to hear from you. What is the #1 struggle or challenge you’re dealing with when it comes to expressing your true self - your personal style, wardrobe, and getting dressed?

Click the button below and share your thoughts. I’ll be reading every response.

* Disclaimer: The Personal Color Code™, the Power Colors™, and the DNA Colors™ are tools intended to support personal style development rather than guarantee specific outcomes. Results will vary based on individual differences.
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